They Thought You'd To Chase Them! I mean ...

They thought you'd chase them. They expected the phone call, the apology, the desperate text, and another chance to pull you back into the same painful cycle. But what happens when you don't? In this video, we're exploring the psychology behind why narcissists often expect their victims to chase them after an argument, breakup, or discard. You'll learn why this expectation develops, what changes when you break the pattern, and why choosing not to chase is one of the most powerful steps you can take towards healing. This isn't about playing games or making a narcissist miss you. It's about understanding trauma bonds, reclaiming your self-worth, and breaking free from the cycle of emotional manipulation. 💙 In this video, you'll discover: • Why narcissists expect you to come back • How trauma bonds condition you to chase • What happens when you refuse to play your old role • Why hoovering often begins after your silence • The difference between silence as manipulation and silence as healing • How to reclaim your identity after narcissistic abuse 🧠 1:1 Trauma Bond Breakthrough Session If you're struggling to let go or rebuild your confidence after narcissistic abuse, you can book a private consultation with me here: 👉 https://www.askanoushka.com/work-with-me 🌸 Join the Daily Ritual Club Daily habits, journal prompts, mindset coaching, visualisations and a supportive community designed to help you heal and become the strongest version of yourself. 👇 I'd love to hear from you in the comments: What changed in your life the moment you stopped chasing? If this video helped you, please like, subscribe and share it with someone who needs this reminder today. #Narcissist #NarcissisticAbuse #TraumaBond #NoContact #HealingJourney #EmotionalAbuse #Psychology #SelfWorth #Gaslighting #MentalHealth #Healing #ToxicRelationships 📩 Business & Consultation Enquiries [email protected]