손주에게 돈 줄수록 사이가 멀어지는 이유

A crisp bill handed to a grandchild out of love. But why did the daughter-in-law's face turn cold and stiff after that day? Why does allowance given out of love for a grandchild result in conflict with the children and their spouses? The reason is not a lack of love. In this video, from the perspectives of senior psychology and neuroscience, we explain through three theories how grandparents' allowance undermines parental authority. We explain how conditional allowances turn a child's behavior into a transaction using behavioral psychologist Skinner's reinforcement theory; what happens when a child overturns parental decisions using the concept of undermining parental authority; and the parental gatekeeper theory, which describes the instinct of parents to protect their children. In particular, we explore the psychological roots of why daughters-in-law and sons-in-law become so sensitive over allowance issues. The best way to love a grandchild is to respect and uplift their parents. This channel warmly cares for the minds of seniors based on the foundations of neuroscience and psychology, covering everything from interpersonal relationships to family, marital, self-esteem, and retirement psychology. Today, before giving your grandchild allowance, ask their parents first. That one simple remark protects the entire family. 💛 If today's story touched your heart, please press Like. 🔔 Subscribe and turn on notifications to receive heartwarming psychology stories every week. 💌 If you know someone around you who feels frustrated because they cannot express their gratitude, please share this video. It will be a warm gift that gives courage to those who have been unable to express their unspoken love. ✅ This channel utilizes AI (Artificial Intelligence) technology in the script planning and writing process to provide viewers with more in-depth and systematic information on psychology and neuroscience.