Making Friends in Your 30s - I Made an App to Help

Grab the tracker: https://stan.store/chelseawallace/p/t... Ask me questions in the DMs on Instagram:   / thechelseawallace   I have not been the best friend, and I've said that out loud before on this channel. But saying it and actually doing something about it are two very different things. So I built a tracker, made a public commitment to 75 days of intentional friendship, and I'm taking y'all with me. In this video I'm walking you through the full friendship tracker I vibe coded using Claude and Lovable (which is also officially the first complete public-facing tool I've ever built and shipped!!). You'll see how the daily actions work (they're small on purpose), how the weekly and monthly layers build depth over time, the go-deeper conversation questions, the weekly reflection prompts, and the growth tracking that keeps you honest with yourself. If you've been the friend who always shows up when called but never reaches out first, or if you've been quietly sacrificing your friendships for your work for years, this is the reset I designed for both of us. If any of this is resonating with you, I'd love to hear your friendship experience in the comments below. Whether you're an introvert, the listener who's always held space for everybody, or someone who's just been letting their people go quiet, drop a comment or find me on Instagram (link in the description). The tracker link is also here if you want to grab it and jump into this with me https://stan.store/chelseawallace/p/t... 00:00 I Made a Public Commitment (Here's What It Is) 02:27 The Habit That's Changing Everything (Without Much Effort) 04:08 The Tool I Built to Hold Myself Accountable 06:42 The Daily Actions That Take Almost No Time 08:15 How I Make Sure People Actually Feel Seen 14:13 The Weekly Challenges That Go Deeper Than Small Talk 17:57 The Big Monthly Move That Gets Me Outside My Comfort Zone 18:52 What Actually Changes After I Track My Growth