Engagement Q&A: Proposal details, wedding plans & our thoughts on prenups

This week on Two Parents & A Podcast — we’re answering ALL of your engagement questions! From the story behind Harrison’s proposal book (and where he actually got it) to what life feels like now that we’re officially engaged, we’re giving you the full play-by-play. We get into the juicy topics you guys asked about: our updated thoughts on a prenup, whether Alex will legally change her last name, and how we handled judgment around having a baby before marriage. Plus, the wedding talk — what kind of wedding we’re planning (traditional? city hall? somewhere in-between?), if we’ll invite kids (other than Tate), our one non-negotiable detail (spoiler alert: mine is CAKE), and whether there will actually be a bridal party / groomsmen. Basically, nothing’s off-limits this week… if you asked it, we answered it :) LOVE YOU GUYS! Timestamps: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Two Parents & A Podcast! 00:01:50 The story behind the proposal book (and where Harrison got it) 00:05:34 Does anything feel different now that we’re engaged? 00:10:04 Updated thoughts on a prenup 00:14:24 Will Alex legally change her last name? 00:15:07 Handling judgment about having a baby before marriage 00:17:55 Was it hard not being married while raising a baby? (Insurance, logistics, etc.) 00:22:10 What type of wedding are we planning? (Traditional, city hall, or in-between?) 00:27:40 Our thoughts on inviting kids other than Tate to the wedding 00:30:32 The one non-negotiable detail for our wedding 00:32:03 Bridal party & groomsmen — will we have them? 00:35:00 LOVE YOU GUYS! #twoparentsandapod --------------------------------------------------------------- Thank you to our sponsors this week: *ZipRecruiter: Post jobs for free at https://www.ziprecruiter.com/ALEX *PAKA: Grab your PAKA hoodie and get a free pair of alpaca crew socks! Go to https://go.pakaapparel.com/TWOPARENTS and use code TWOPARENTS. *Harbor: Restore your peace of mind with Harbor — the only baby monitor designed to never fail you. Use code TWOPARENTS at https://harbor.co/TWOPARENTS for $50 off. *Hers: Whether you want to lose weight, grow thicker, fuller hair, or find relief for anxiety, Hers has you covered. Visit https://www.forhers.com/ALEX to get your personalized plan. Weight Loss by Hers is not available everywhere. Compounded products are not FDA-approved. Prescription required. See website for full details. --------------------------------------------------------------- Listen to the pod on YouTube/Spotify/Apple:    / @twoparentsandapod   https://open.spotify.com/show/7BxuZnH... https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... --------------------------------------------------------------- Follow Two Parents & A Podcast: Instagram |   / twoparentsandapod   TikTok |   / twoparentsandapod   Follow Alex Bennett: Instagram |   / justalexbennett   TikTok |   / justalexbennett   Follow Harrison Fugman: Instagram |   / harrisonfugman   TikTok |   / harrisonfugman   --------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House – https://www.justmediahouse.com/ --------------------------------------------------------------- Key words: engagement Q&A, engagement podcast, proposal story, engagement ring details, Alex Bennett engagement, Harrison Fugman engagement, Two Parents and a Podcast, proposal book story, prenup discussion, changing last name after marriage, baby before marriage, wedding plans podcast, wedding non negotiables, bridal party or not, kids at weddings, relationship podcast, parenting and marriage, engagement advice

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