Your 'Spec' Is Keeping You Single (I Almost Missed My Husband) || Mildred Okonkwo

Your 'Spec' Is Keeping You Single (I Almost Missed My Husband) || Mildred Okonkwo Is your list of "must-haves" actually a list of barriers? In this eye-opening confession, Pastor Mildred Okonkwo admits that if she had stuck to her original "spec," she would have missed out on the love of her life. ​We all have a picture in our heads of what our future partner should look like—tall, dark, wealthy, or perhaps a specific personality type. But Pastor Mildred warns that holding too tightly to your physical or superficial preferences can blind you to God's choice. She shares the hilarious and humbling reality of how her husband, Pastor Kingsley, didn't initially fit the "package" she thought she wanted, but he was exactly the man she needed. ​This video is a reality check for every single person who is dismissing good people because they don't fit a fantasy. You will learn how to distinguish between Preferences (what you want) and Principles (what you need), and why God often wraps your blessing in "unattractive paper" to test your heart. Watch this to drop the list and open your eyes. ​ 👀 Open your eyes to what matters! Subscribe and hit the bell 🔔 for more relationship truths. If you are ready to let God choose, LIKE this video and comment "NO MORE CHECKLISTS"! ​ keeping you single, my list is keeping me single, mildred okonkwo testimony, how i met my husband, choosing the right partner, dating red flags, unrealistic expectations in dating, waiting for the perfect man, pastor kingsley okonkwo, christian dating advice, relationship spec, looking for a husband, god's choice vs my choice, marriage testimony ​ #Singlehood #MildredOkonkwo #MySpec #RelationshipGoals #ChristianDating #MarriageTestimony #RealLove #Expectations #DatingAdvice #GodsChoice #TheOne #LoveStory