Single Minded Approach

The outcome is easier when you’re single… …minded. I’m sure we all agree that as a single person looking for a potential mate, there are a variety of outcomes to be desired. Just a bit of company. Someone to share our entire lives with. The whole family package. Or just some casual, you know! If we approach a prospective partner in a bar (assuming that still happens occasionally) with all those outcomes in mind, we’ll end up in a very confused relationship. If we managed to get one at all. This is the reason that I go into every proactive and reactive, task and problem, with a single minded approach. “What is the one simple outcome I am focused on?” It gives me one clear direction to take action towards. So next time you’re in a bar (real or virtual) chatting to a prospective partner. Be clear on your outcome. Because if what you really want is a family, you don’t want to be stuck, practicing making one. Have a clear outcome focus. What do you focus on under pressure (or at the bar)? #scaleup #peopleandculture #highperformanceteams #psychologicalsafety