Kiya Kahe Ga Kazi # 154 - Toxic Love in 2023

If you're reading this, might I encourage the pressing of the like and the subscription buttons? And the possible sharing of this piece of content with your family and peers? It counts for more than you know. Segments 0:00 Celebrating the new year 1:06 using headphones while podcasting for the first time 2:23 Is an unmarried 29-year-old woman a failure? 4:21 Defining failure 6:08 Are we generally a cold people? 7:50 Respecting the reality shaping power of the context 10:26 Only fail when you stop trying 12:13 A 16-year-old asks me about self-rewarding behaviors 15:32 Why self-care is essential 16:55 My first experience with a therapist 18:30 The concept of 'earning' self-love 20:06 The Stanford dopamine study 22:43 Doing the work needs to become its own reward 24:12 The dangers of associating dopamine with the outcome 24:55 The best way to avoid burnout 26:10 A person searching for happiness will always be unhappy 28:01 Ryan Holiday on speaking about and doing a certain thing 29:23 My problem is a man who won't admit his feelings toward me 30:27 Using the word 'depression,' properly 31:07 Whose fault is this unrequited love 34:01 The key to your destruction rests with your loved ones 35:21 Maya Angelou on believing people 36:19 The cognitive tax of unrequited love 37:15 I get invited to IBA as a guest of honor 39:36 I wonder why they would invite me 42:40 An anon lover concerned with how a person looks 46:04 What is empathy 47:31 The cure for unrequited love? 50:35 Who is really my friend? 53:04 Are you really becoming ruthless? 54:00 The temporal quality of memories 55:04 Are friendships a form of passing the time? 57:13 Entitlement isn't fair to anyone 59:30 The different kinds of friends 01:01The story of Hot Spot in Karachi 01:04 Feelings connected to time more than space 01:05 Thoughts and prayers on 2022 and 2023 Find the podcast on all audio streaming platforms here: https://linktr.ee/kaziakber Speak to Kazi: [email protected] Instagram:   / kaziakber   TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kaziakber?is_... Twitter :   / kaziakber   Facebook:   / kiyakahegakazi   Shop the Merch: https://manhoos.pk/product/brand/kazi...