When a narcissist starts to HATE everything about you | The Narcissists' Code

What happens when a narcissist starts to hate everything about you? In this episode, I explain the stage in a narcissistic relationship where they suddenly resent everything - your looks, personality, success, and even the things they used to love about you. As a diagnosed narcissist, I break down the "fracturing stage" between love bombing and devaluation, where narcissists see your flaws for the first time and start to resent you for not being perfect. I explain why your bubbly personality that they bragged about suddenly becomes "talking too much," and why your success can be perceived as a flaw that emasculates them. This can happen overnight - you go to sleep in a loving relationship and wake up to someone who looks at you with disgust. Learn why they hate how you make them feel about themselves, not actually you, and why the new supply will go through the exact same stages. I also cover the 7 stages of a narcissistic relationship and why watching their new relationship won't help you heal. 🔗 Check out my courses "Understanding the 7 Stages of a Narcissistic Relationship" and "Finding Your W.H.Y!" at https://mentalhealness.net All my links - https://link.me/mentalhealness Channel Memberships For More perks-    / @mentalhealness   Official- https://www.mentalhealness.net Courses/Support Groups - https://courses.mentalhealness.net Remember, it's not your fault (Kid's Book) - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ Self Love Journal - https://a.co/d/70L3zKb Brand Shop - https://i-am-self-love.myshopify.com Want To Be A Podcast Guest? - https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-P... Cameo/Shoutouts - https://www.cameo.com/mentalhealness Reddit Group -   / thementalhealers   Weekly Newsletter - subscribepage.io/mentalhealness What's going on beautiful people? If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone. Thank you so much 0:00 - When narcissists start to hate everything about you 0:50 - This can happen overnight 1:31 - They hate what they used to love 2:37 - From "bubbly and kind" to "talks too much" 3:18 - They blame YOU for the change 4:14 - The fracturing stage explained 5:22 - They treat you like a liar 6:01 - The 7 stages of a narcissistic relationship 6:54 - Will the new supply get better treatment? 7:39 - Stop watching the new relationship 9:14 - What narcissists really want 10:09 - Your "flaws" might just be boundaries 10:55 - They hate how you make them feel about themselves 11:34 - Your success can be seen as a flaw