Essa é a receita de Deus para o seu casamento | Elisete Mendes

Why are so many Christian marriages crumbling from within? In this episode, Christian couples therapist Elisete Mendes reveals what God designed for marriage and what most couples don't understand about union, unity, and the emotional legacies each carries without realizing it. Elisete has been working with couples for years and clearly shows what destroys a marriage from within: the emotional baggage that no one resolves, the expectations that frustrate, the communication that hurts, and the umbilical cord with the parents that was never cut. All this is based on biblical principles, real-life examples from her practice, and simple language that anyone can apply. If you feel your marriage is stuck, if you constantly fight over the same things, if you feel you "married your spouse's mother" or "married their father," or if you simply want to build a truly strong marriage, this episode is for you. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - The Inflection in Christ - Because only Jesus transforms. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - 🔴 Chapters to make your journey easier 00:00 What do I need to have a strong marriage? 00:16 We are very different and THAT'S GOOD for marriage 02:24 We are not competitors, we play on the same team 02:54 The emotional baggage that each one carries into marriage 03:16 Generational legacies: what comes from your family without you knowing 04:29 Getting to know me as an individual BEFORE being a couple 09:22 Passion lasts 2 years and then ENDS (and then what?) 12:06 Wait for the passion to pass before getting married 12:29 Expectation: what destroys marriages the MOST 15:25 26 years of marriage: what she learned in practice 16:46 Don't get married without knowing the other's family history 18:37 You were NOT born into the wrong family: God's purpose 20:53 Generational curses vs. generational blessings in the Bible 22:10 "It seems like I married my mother/father" 22:42 Whoever wakes up spiritually first saves the house 25:18 What is healing and deliverance from Truth (it's not just about casting out demons) 32:55 Inherited behaviors: we are not born this way, we LEARN them 42:47 Marriage is UNITY, not just union (orange analogy) 44:14 Beware of therapists without a biblical foundation 52:06 Facade marriages: they seem married, but live separately 53:39 Having children is a blessing: don't postpone it too long 57:46 Frustration builds character: don't be afraid to say NO 59:37 Uncommunicated expectations DESTROY the marriage 1:01:39 Communication in marriage: it's not WHAT you say, it's HOW 1:04:28 Respect each other's time (men and women think differently) 1:06:39 Say "WE" and never "I" in the couple's decisions 1:11:17 The umbilical cord with parents: it will leave father and mother 1:15:33 Consult the Holy Spirit before anything Person 1:18:33 Elisete's Social Networks and Projects - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Here, numbers aren't metrics, they're life. Each person who subscribes to this channel isn't just another subscriber. It's another soul who decided to seek clarity, foundation, and truth. It's someone who chose to stop living on spiritual autopilot and take a real step towards God. We don't count subscribers. We count lives being transformed. What you receive here, give to others. Don't keep it only for yourself. 🔥 Lives Reached — Each milestone is a harvest: ✅ 1 life reached [02/05/2026] ❌ 1,000 lives reached ❌ 10,000 lives reached ❌ 50,000 lives reached ❌ 75,000 lives reached ❌ 100,000 lives reached You're not just watching. You're being a part of the work. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Social Media: Guest: in/elisetemendesoficial Inflexão em Cristo: in/@inflexaocristo Maycon: in/@mayconmarchiori Subscribe to the channel: https://www.youtube.com/@InflexaoCris... - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Disclaimer: Inflexão em Cristo aims to promote open, welcoming, and edifying conversations, bringing together guests with different experiences and perspectives within the Christian faith. The statements, opinions, and positions expressed by guests during the episodes, as well as the comments left by the audience, are the sole responsibility of their authors and do not necessarily reflect the opinions or positions of the presenter Maycon, nor of Inflexão em Cristo. The participation of guests does not imply endorsement or validation of any ideas or statements by the presenter or the team. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Inflexão em Cristo is an original project of Estudio741. © Estudio741 Ltda. All rights reserved. Total or partial reproduction of this content is not permitted without prior authorization. #inflexãoemcristo #christianfaith #podcast #jesuschrist #bible #lifewithGod