Faire le bilan de son Couple avec un jeu de cartes

Are you wondering what the secrets are to a lasting relationship? Many couples therapists point to a seemingly simple skill, but one rarely practiced in everyday life: knowing how to talk about the relationship itself. In therapy, this is called "metacommunication": taking time to assess the relationship, not just when things are going badly, but as a guiding thread that allows for readjustment, renewed commitment, and steering the relationship in the desired direction. To facilitate this dialogue, there are concrete tools available. Here, we present a tool from the systemic approach: the "Monster Love" game, which allows you to talk about the relationship from a third-party perspective (the relationship itself), using images and emotions, and to work on the concept of time (the couple of yesterday, today, and the one you wish to build). On the agenda: – Why “taking stock” doesn’t mean “things are bad” – How to establish regular, informal dialogue – Metacommunicating: talking about the connection rather than the content of arguments – Simple questions to understand each other and readjust – A fun tool (Love Monster) to open up the discussion – Why couples who talk about their relationship give themselves a better chance of staying together Resources: – “Love Monster” game: [email protected] – Online training (for professionals): https://app.complexe-systemique.com/f... Nurturing your relationship: Navigating the stages of married life together: https://amzn.to/4sHFYMb --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Online training: app.complexe-systemique.com Support Join the channel and become a Pro member for exclusive content:    / @julienbesse   To support the channel on Tipeee: https://fr.tipeee.com/julien-besse/ To subscribe to the newsletter or book an appointment: www.julienbesse.com