Why Have We Stopped Having Sex In Our Long Term Relationship? Why Intimacy & Attraction Fades

Stop trying to fix a sexless relationship with "spiced up" date nights or fancy lingerie — that's like putting a Band-Aid on a broken leg. If the spark is gone, it’s probably not about your libido or physical attraction. It’s usually about emotional safety and the invisible resentment building up between you two. In this episode, we break down why high-achieving professionals often end up in "roommate" marriages and why scheduling sex can actually make things way more awkward. We’ll explain how your nervous system literally shuts down intimacy when you don't feel safe, and why you need to rest and digest before you can... well, you know. LinkedIn -   / katarinapolonska   Instagram -   / katarinapolonska   Many relationship challenges often stem not from libido, but from deeper issues. This video highlights that a lack of trust and emotional connection are frequently at the core of relationship problems. As a relationship coach, I emphasize building trust and fostering intimacy for healthy relationships, rather than just seeking quick fixes.