Guide pour répondre au #NotAllMen

Hands off masculinity in a patriarchal society. This is what the reaction of some internet users in 2014 tells us. Following a mass shooting orchestrated by a man who had shared numerous misogynistic remarks, they refused to link masculinity to these violent femicides. On social media, this resistance took the form of a hashtag: #NotAllMen. The phrase suggests that sexist and sexual violence is only perpetrated by isolated individuals. But behind this concentrated dose of patriarchal rhetoric lies a denial that sometimes borders on the irrational. How (and should we) engage in a verbal battle with those who insist that “not all men, after all”? Why do we still prefer to tell ourselves that women are lying rather than acknowledging that rape is everywhere? How can we, collectively, confront the realities of sexist and sexual violence? Should we expect men to join the ranks of feminists? In this episode, Naomi Titti interviews Giulia Foïs, journalist and author of Not All Men, Even So (https://www.babelio.com/livres/Fois-P...) (Éditions la Meute, 2025), who shares her arguments with humor and precision, along with the keys to fostering the most constructive dialogue possible around this burning issue. GUEST RECOMMENDATIONS – Listen to the song "Les filles, les meufs" (   • marguerite - les filles, les meufs  ) by Marguerite, from the EP "Grandir" (2025) – Learn about the association Les Papillons (https://www.associationlespapillons.o..., which works to give a voice to children who are victims of violence – Give the book "Pas tous les hommes quand même" (https://www.babelio.com/livres/Fois-P...) and all the essays in the "Permis de déconstruire" collection from La Meute publishers (by Lorraine Selle-Delavaud): We must trust the justice system (https://www.babelio.com/livres/Tuaill...) by Élodie Tuaillon (La Meute, 2025) You're Not Going to Cry Like a Chick (https://www.babelio.com/livres/Peytav...) by Lucie Peytavin (La Meute, 2025) They're Going to End Up Alone with Their Cats (https://www.babelio.com/livres/Debest...) by Charlotte Debest (La Meute, 2025) And Those to Come by Violaine de Filippis, Sandrine Rousseau, Marie Kirschen, and Rokhaya Diallo REFERENCES CITED IN THE EPISODE Find the references cited in the episode on the page: https://www.binge.audio/podcast/les-c... CREDITS Les Couilles sur la table is a podcast created by Victoire Tuaillon and produced by Binge Audio. This interview was prepared, conducted, and edited by Naomi Titti and recorded on December 8, 2025, at the Virginie Despentes studio of Binge Audio (Paris, 19th arrondissement). Sound recording, production, and mixing: Paul Bertiaux and Jude Rigaud. Editorial and production supervision: Naomi Titti. Production and editing: Marie Foulon. Photo credits: Chloé Vollmer-Lo. Communication: Lise Niederkorn. Editor-in-chief: Thomas Rozec. Production Director: Albane Fily. Administrative and Financial Manager: Adrienne Marino. Original Music: Théo Boulenger. Graphic Design: Marion Lavedeau (Upian). Sound Identity Composition: Jean-Benoît Dunckel. Sound Identity Voice: Bonnie El Bokeili. Head of Programming: Joël Ronez. Hosted by Audiomeans. Visit audiomeans.fr/politique-de-confidentialite (https://www.audiomeans.fr/politique-d...) for more information.