Stop Dating the Profile, Date the Person Feat. Jonathan Soto

We have Jonathan Soto on the podcast this week aka a full on BGT STAFF PARTY!!!!! We get into dating men who feel like Instagram profiles, emoji flirting that goes nowhere, anxious attachment while trying to be the “Chill girl”, first-gen family love, long distance as a green flag, and what actually matters on your partner list. If you are a kind emotionally aware gay man who wants something REAL this might be your sign to shoot your shot with Jonathan tbhhhhh 💌 Send us your questions and stories to be featured on da pod https://www.brokegirltherapy.com/cont... TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Intro and BGT staff party with Jonathan 01:33 Queer coded couples and queer media vibes 03:38 Ariana Grande eras, voice changes and pop culture 11:18 How Steff and Jonathan met back in FIDM days 13:00 Jonathan’s dating history and never having the big IG official relationship 16:11 Anxious attachment and pretending to be the “cool girl” 18:02 Emoji flirting that doesn’t land and what actually counts as shooting your shot 25:59 Parents’ marriage, growing up Mexican and love shown through actions 29:11 First gen kid feelings and not hearing “I love you” out loud 33:51 Seeing dating differently now and learning to walk away 35:03 Dating apps, hookup culture and people feeling like profiles 41:18 Long distance relationships and why they can really test compatibility 52:14 The partner list and what actually needs to be on it 57:25 Manifesting Jonathan’s person and what he’s looking for 59:37 Sensitivity, emotions, anger and non negotiables in a partner 1:09:03 Kinks, raves and realizing what is and isn’t your scene 1:11:39 Gay Love Island ideas, Jonathan’s plug and episode outro Support our sponsors and BGT by using the codes below: BetterHelp: As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first month by visiting our sponsor at BetterHelp.com/brokegirl Mood: Mood.com PROMO CODE: BROKEGIRL for 20% off your first order Dipsea: DIPSEAstories.com/brokegirl Stefanie Maegan   / brokegirltherapy     / stefaniemaegan   Rose McAleese   / rose_ettastone   https://thenewblogontheblock.com/ Jonathan Soto   / jonathansoto