Top or Bottom? What Most Bi Guys Really Prefer | A Bi Guy Explains

Are bisexual men more likely to be tops, bottoms, or somewhere in between? There are so many myths and assumptions about bi men and our preferences in the bedroom—but what’s the reality? As a bisexual man myself and a sexuality coach who has worked with hundreds of bisexual men, I’ve had countless conversations about this topic. In this video, I’ll be sharing my personal experience as well as insights from my work coaching other bi men, exploring what we really prefer and why. A lot of people assume that bisexual men lean one way or the other, or that we’re all just “vers” by default. But the truth is much more interesting! From societal pressures and past experiences to personal desires and relationships, so many factors shape what feels right for each person. I’ll also be talking about common misconceptions, how labels like ‘top’ and ‘bottom’ apply (or don’t apply) to bi men, and why flexibility in attraction can lead to unexpected preferences. If you’ve ever wondered how bisexual guys really feel about being a top or bottom—or if you’re bi yourself and figuring out what you prefer—this is the video for you! Let’s break down the myths and have an honest chat about bisexuality, attraction, and what actually happens behind closed doors. @notdefining is a support network for anyone who has ever struggled with their orientation, identity, self confidence or gender. We create content and mentor to help you find a place where you feel confident and fulfilled, whatever your background or identity. If you like our content please subscribe, like and share. Also you can check @notdening out on Instagram, Threads and TikTok. To book a 1:1 coaching session with Mark visit www.notdefining.com. To chat with Mark, access exclusive content and attend our group sessions, join us at patreon.com/notdefining. TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMLuo2RnW/ Instagram:   / threads:   www.threads.new/@notdefining If you like our content and would like to donate please consider giving to our partner charity UK Black Pride https://ukblackpride.org.uk/donate Thank you so much for being here…