АБЬЮЗ: как управлять абьюзером | Сергей Локтионов

We're used to thinking that toxic relationships are easy to recognize. But in this episode, you'll see a completely different picture. Together with psychotherapist Sergey Loktionov, we discuss control, emotional swings, narcissists, and why victims in toxic relationships remain—even when they understand everything. At the end of the episode, we'll be giving away a personal consultation with Sergey among the best comments. ✍️ Write in the comments: Can you recognize a narcissist on the first date? Can a narcissist love? Why is it so hard to leave a toxic relationship? Are narcissists born or made? And is it true that toxic relationships are more attractive than healthy ones? 01:26 — The winner of the previous episode's contest 01:35 — Abuse: What It Really Is 02:13 — Manipulation and Toxic Relationships: What's the Difference 03:07 — Control Tools 04:23 — Caring as a Weapon 05:02 — Emotional Swings: The Mechanics 06:45 — The Cycle of Toxic Relationships 13:38 — About Changing Partners 19:28 — Role Reversal: Victim and Aggressor 21:14 — Narcissism 27:33 — Healthy Relationships: Reality 31:00 — Boundaries in Toxic Relationships 37:18 — Indifference as a Survival Tool 38:03 — Sports and Relationship Control 44:21 — Why Toxic Relationships Attract 47:18 — Contest: Raffle off a Consultation with Sergey Schedule a Consultation with Sergey (Telegram: @SVLoktion) #abuse #narcissism #toxicrelationships #psychology #psychotherapist