How Having a Narcissistic Mother Messes with You Long-Term

Male and female children are differently treated--and affected--by having a narcissistic mother. SO many things you may never have thought much about! This episode will help you think in different ways about the long-term effects that having a Hijackal mother could have had on your sense of self, your self-confidence, your resilience...AND on your relationships. Use this episode to help you uncover hidden pieces SO you can turn them around and feel clearer and stronger. 00:00 Infants depend on love, care, and survival. 09:52 Narcissistic mother undermines child's self-worth. 13:36 Recognize impact of hijackle mom on relationships. 19:25 Hijackle mother shapes behavior, fosters over-accommodation. 22:14 High tech mom's emotional neglect, narcissistic behavior. 30:46 Embrace your values, communicate, seek help if needed. 34:29 Embrace freedom, refuse repression and constraint. 41:04 Dark times, visible ruthless tendencies, alarming permission. 47:02 Contemplating childhood saying, hijackles desire your tears. 49:33 Grandmother manipulates granddaughter's affection for attention. 57:55 Empathy, self-worth, and expressive life goals. 01:01:15 Parents' expectations affect children's behavior profoundly. * Remember, narcissists and other toxic people come in all genders and ages * * and toxic relationships can be at home, at work, at play... with your parent, boss, spouse, sibling, friend, co-worker. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ I am Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor. Are you in relationship with a Hijackal? That's someone who consistently puts you down, love-bombs and gaslights you, creates confusion and chaos, and causes you to second-guess yourself? I can help you recognize, understand, and make decisions about those kinds of narcissistic behavior…and especially, how to keep yourself (and your children) safe and sane. No worries about where in the world you live. I work through private, secure video conferencing. So, we can certainly work together to figure a few things out. CONNECT WITH ME: Website: http://www.EmergingEmpowered.com Podcast: http://www.SaveYourSanityPodcast.com EE Community: http://www.JoinInToday.com Subscribe to Newsletter: http://www.hijackalhelp.com Blog: http://www.narcissismblog.com Facebook:   / hijackals   Instagram: @DrRhobertaShaler YouTube:    / forrelationshiphelp   Get my free ebook at http://www.Hijackals.com Take my free checklists: https://www.forrelationshiphelp.com/c... Are you looking for relief from the pain, confusion and drama of toxic relationships? You can reclaim your personal power. Keep watching my videos on YouTube to find strategies for changing your relationship dynamics.. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ WANT A SAFE PLACE-- off social media-- TO TALK, ASK QUESTIONS, GET EXPERT ANSWERS & SUPPORT? Join my Emerging Empowered Community, online: http://www.JoinInToday.com ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Explore my eCourses to build your confidence in dealing with narcissistic people. http://relationshipprograms.com #narcmom #longtermtoxicity #boundaries #Hijackals #toxicpeople #narcissists #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #narcissisticabuse #personalitydisorder ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ This content has been created and recorded for the general interest and information of the viewer/listener. Nothing said or implied on this site should be taken, or construed in any way, as legal advice, or personal advice of any kind. It is entirely informational, offering readers, viewers, subscribers, followers, and members educational resources, anecdotes, case studies, and stories. Optimize Life Now LLC & Rhoberta Shaler, PhD makes no representations about the suitability of the content of this site for any purpose. All content is provided “as is” without any warranty of any kind.