DVもモラハラもしていないのに子供に会えない。父親が取るべき「たった一つの戦略」｜親子交流シリーズ第４弾

I haven't committed domestic violence or emotional abuse. Yet, I can't see my child. "I have no recollection of doing so." "I didn't mean to." Parent-Child Interaction Series, Part 4 (Final Part). Attorney Osamu Shibata, Representative Attorney of Themis Law Firm, explains the strategies fathers should adopt in this situation. First, let's share a harsh premise. Among fathers accused of domestic violence or emotional abuse, a certain number are actually perpetrators but are unaware of it. We will proceed with this premise in mind. Furthermore, there are cases where the mother has a strong victim mentality, and claims that her objectively reasonable behavior constitutes domestic violence or emotional abuse. What the court is looking at is not "who is at fault," "whether the child can now safely interact with their parent." Even without domestic violence or emotional abuse, intense conflict alone can restrict parent-child interaction. The breakthrough in this situation is "small steps." Start with one hour per month, build up your experience, and gradually increase the frequency and duration. It will take time. There will be periods when you cannot closely observe your child's growth. Even so, rushing and trying to do everything will be counterproductive. Proceed steadily and surely. ▼ Table of Contents 00:00 Unable to see your child even though you haven't committed domestic violence or emotional abuse 01:25 Two realities of fathers considered perpetrators 02:37 Criteria for judging parent-child interaction 03:35 Breakthrough: Small steps 04:49 Small steps and the harsh reality 05:54 Summary ▼ Parent-Child Interaction Series #1: Can emotional abusers see their children? Explaining the fundamental principles #2: Is it necessary to let emotionally abusive husbands see their children? #3: What Fathers Separated from Their Abusive Wives Should Know #4: This Video (Final Episode) ─────────────── ⚖️ Lawyer Shu Shibata Representative Lawyer, Themis Law Firm (Okayama City, Okayama Prefecture - 8-minute walk from Okayama Station East Exit) 【Achievements & Publications】 ■ Over 13,000 Followers on X (formerly Twitter) ■ Numerous Publications ・"Escaping the Swamp of Emotional Abuse: A Guide from Psychology and Law Experts to Help You Make a Decision" ・"A Guide to Cutting Ties with Toxic Parents: Systems and Laws for Escaping Domestic Violence, Abuse, and Stalking" etc. This channel does not offer the typical "gentle advice that only offers empathy." Sympathy and emotional arguments are useless against perpetrators who lie as easily as they breathe (adulterers, domestic violence perpetrators, emotionally abusive husbands). The only things that will truly save you are "irrefutable evidence" and "ruthless legal tactics." ▼ For individual consultations and reservations, please contact us here (LINE/email support) Official Website: https://www.themis-okayama.jp/ Official LINE: http://lin.ee/ht887lM 086-206-3650 (Reception: Weekdays 9:00-18:00 *Weekends by appointment) *Online consultations available nationwide in Japan Official X Account https://x.com/themis_okayama #Parent-Child Interaction #Visitation #Divorce #LawyerExplanation #FathersRights #WrongfulConviction