SITTING WITH MJAY – EPISODE 64: Parents, Society, or Experience? Who Teaches Our Kids About Sex?

In this episode of Sitting With MJay, MJay sits down with Ouma and David for a layered and honest follow-up conversation sparked by Episode 63, where he spoke with Mmamafala, a Mdavazo coach. This time, the focus shifts from explanation to reflection, asking the hard questions many people were left thinking about after that episode. The conversation opens with a direct reaction to the idea of Mdavazo and whether it is truly practical in today’s relationships. Ouma and David bring contrasting perspectives, challenging the concept while also acknowledging the gaps that exist when it comes to sexual education and guidance. The discussion immediately sets the tone, this is not about dismissing, but about understanding and questioning. As the episode unfolds, the trio dives deeper into whether society actually talks enough about sex, or if silence continues to shape how people experience intimacy. They unpack how many individuals grow up without clear guidance, often learning through trial, misinformation, or external influences that may not always be healthy or accurate. A key part of the conversation centers around responsibility, who should be teaching us about sex? Is it parents, schools, communities, or partners? Ouma brings a generational lens, highlighting how things were handled in the past, while David reflects on the modern-day reality where access to information is easier, but not always reliable. The discussion becomes more personal and thought-provoking as they explore where people are actually learning about sex today. From social media to peers, to lived experiences, the episode exposes how fragmented and inconsistent sexual education has become, and how that affects relationships, expectations, and confidence. As the conversation progresses, it becomes clear that the real issue is not just about Mdavazo or any single approach, but about the broader lack of open, structured, and honest conversations around sex. MJay, Ouma, and David challenge the silence, encouraging listeners to think critically about what they know, what they were taught, and what still needs to be unlearned or relearned. 🔥 Topics Discussed: ✨ Reaction to Episode 63 and Mdavazo coaching ✨ Is Mdavazo practical or necessary? ✨ Do we talk enough about sex as a society? ✨ Who should teach us about sex? ✨ The role of parents vs modern influences ✨ Where people actually learn about sex today ✨ The impact of silence and misinformation ✨ Bridging generational gaps in sexual conversations 🎙️ Random Question of the Day: If no one formally teaches us about sex, are we really equipped to handle intimacy in relationships? 🎙️ Signature Mjay Moment: “Who do you trust to teach you about sex, and how do you know what they’re teaching you is right?” 🎙️ Hosts: MJay, Ouma & David 📢 Don’t forget: Subscribe to the channel, leave a comment, and share your thoughts respectfully. Do you think we rely too much on experience instead of proper education when it comes to sex? 📧 Advertise with us: [email protected] 📞 WhatsApp / Call: 065 929 1133