This is adulthood: Carving Pumpkins & Existential Crisis 🎃

We gave ourselves 30 minutes to carve pumpkins while unpacking the scariest parts of growing up. 😭💀 From friendships fading to realizing your mom’s just a person too, this video is half Halloween chaos, half emotional girl talk you didn’t know you needed. We’re carving (Noelle’s first time!), racing the clock, naming our pumpkins (Craig vs Mrs. Pumpkinworth), and realizing maybe the real “glow up” is just becoming friends with yourself again. ✨ In this video we cover: 🎃 The scariest parts of your 20s: body confidence, friendships, independence 🎃 What “inner child healing” actually looks like (pumpkin seeds and PSL martinis totally count) 🎃 How to make adult life fun again without needing a party or a plus one 💌 This video is for you if… You’re figuring out your 20s and need some big sister energy You love cozy fall nights, Halloween vibes, and bestie challenges You want to feel like you’re FaceTiming your friends without the chaos of group chats 🎥 Make your own carve night: 🕯️ Pumpkin carving kit we used (affiliate): https://amzn.to/4qlIxSZ 🍸 PSL espresso martinis or mocktails 🎬 Movie lineup: Halloweentown, Twitches, Mean Girls 💬 Comment below: Team Craig or Mrs. Pumpkinworth? Drop a 🌙 if you watched to the end! ✨ LET’S BE BESTIES ✨ 📸 Instagram:   / soellegirls   🎥 TikTok for daily chaos:   / soellegirls   📧 Sponsorships / PR: [email protected] ⏱️ Timestamps 00:00 🎃 Intro, spooky season hats, and why we’re carving 00:55 🪓 The 30-minute challenge and stencils 02:22 ⏸️ Hollowing break — “we’ll be right back” 03:17 ⏰ Timer on! The chaos begins 03:24 🤧 Getting sick without mom for the first time 05:15 🕰️ Realizing time passes and friendships shift 05:50 💬 The “my mom’s just a person” realization 07:52 🎥 When you start relating to the parents in movies 09:50 👚 Crop tops, body confidence, and dressing for you 12:59 🧸 Inner-child joy: why kid stuff feels healing again 13:50 🧘‍♀️ Fun doesn’t have to mean “self-improvement” 15:37 🔪 The most satisfying carve pops 16:01 ⏳ Ten minutes left on the clock 20:26 🎭 Meet our pumpkins: Craig & Mrs. Pumpkinworth 21:08 🛑 Stopping the timer with 35 seconds left 21:40 🧰 The pumpkin carving kit that actually helped 22:21 🍷 Hosting your own carve night (snacks + movies) 23:03 🌙 Vote your favorite pumpkin and drop a moon if you stayed to the end #SoElleGirls #PumpkinCarvingChallenge #HalloweenVlog #CozyGirlEra #FallVibes #GirlTalkVlog #InnerChildHealing #BestieChallenge #GrowingUpInYour20s #AdultingDiaries #FallGirlsNight #GenZLifestyle #SpookySeason