23 and living alone in Cape Town | I am a Graduate after 6 years | Addressing some things | Work

Hey Lovers How is everyone doing ? I hope the new year is treating ya'll good because chile it's treating me good. Anyway, welcome to this vlog. In this vlog I speak on some comments that people had to say about my weight and about a past relationship. I actually told myself I wouldn't speak on it and let the people that decided to give their side of the story or opinion of the story be the ones to tell you because I mean hey...What am I going to do ? Tape their mouths ? Close their channels ? lol no baby. I however felt like it was actually crippling me and creating stagnancy a bit when the chats going around were painting certain pictures. I won't clear anything because I have actually moved past it and have no desire to share anything on my end. Where I found myself sharing my side , I ended up editing it out because freedom comes not in proving yourself but knowing your truth. The truth has a spirit and I shall allow it to carry me. Also I have been here before. Just in a different way and with a different person. I'm sure ya'll know how the story goes. If you don't that is okay. I do however address the constant reminders on social media because no baby girl , just uh huh. You can tell my story for me but at a point , I'm going to tell you to get off the ride; especially when you don't know when to. Outside of that little thorn in the garden...We work in this vlog and we just enjoy life and how happy life can be . I hope ya'll enjoy this vlog as much as I did editing it. I also hope you appreciate the constant ranting you are going to encounter. Mwah xoxo...Oh let me leave you with this For when you try to prove yourself , you diminish your worth for the Lord already knows and values you , so to which mortal do you want to derive your value from ? And who taught you that their given value to you even equates to who and what you are. Love thyself with passion for you teach them how to love you. Those that see value will and those that don't are not mean to. Each is protection for thyself and if you don't choose it ... Life will forcefully give it you Another... When life decides to rid a path from your sight. Remember that only he can see the end of the tunnel and even if you did good or thought you did , sometimes pain is subtle and we don't see how it leaves us and falls onto another. Though highlighting others pain may help diminish yours. It only heightens your inability to see truth from it and instead it hardens your heart for whom with a good heart shall rejoice over the ache of another? When you too are not exempt ?