Make It Without Losing It | Jess Ekstrom on Success, Identity & the Arrival Trap

In this episode of Growth Over Goals, Jordan Montgomery sits down with bestselling author and speaker Jess Ekstrom to unpack the tension so many high performers face; how to chase success without losing yourself in the process. Jess shares the heart behind her new book Making It Without Losing It, diving into the “arrival trap,” the lies we believe about our worth, and the pressure to always chase what’s next. Through personal stories, practical wisdom, and powerful reframes, this conversation challenges listeners to rethink what success really means, and how to pursue it in a way that actually leads to fulfillment. From redefining identity to learning how to lead, communicate, and live with intention, this episode is packed with insights for anyone striving for more while trying to stay grounded in what matters most. If you’ve ever felt stuck in the cycle of “once I get there, then I’ll be happy,” this conversation is for you. 🎧 Subscribe for more conversations on leadership, growth, and living with purpose.