미혼남녀 57%가 모솔인 진짜 이유 -- 편한 게 아니라 다친 겁니다

Is the phrase "being alone is comfortable" something people say because it is genuinely comfortable? Or is it because they have been burned once, causing their brain to automatically put on the brakes? Could it be that behind the words "dating is a hassle" right now, there is an unhealed wound? 57% of single men and women have never dated, and the number one reason is "being alone is comfortable." In this video, we explore the five warning signs of unhealthy relationships, the reasons why attachment patterns repeat, and the three skills for healthy love (insight, reciprocity, and emotional regulation), using data and psychology. --- 00:00 The Era of 57% Never-Been-in-Single -- The True Meaning of "Being Alone Is Comfortable" 02:00 Dating Violence Increases 57% in 3 Years, Arrest Rate 2% 03:30 5 Signs of Harmful Love (Intensity/Isolation/Jealousy/Neglect/Mood Swings) 07:00 Why Do the Same Patterns Repeat? -- Attachment Theory 09:30 The Chase-Flight Cycle of Anxious + Avoidant Types 11:00 Healthy Love Is a Skill -- 3 Dating Competencies 13:30 "Mom, That Isn't Love" -- If You Know, You Can See It; If You See It, You Can Avoid It --- References: CDC NISVS, One Love Foundation (Katie Hood), Joanne Davila Romantic Competence (Stony Brook Univ.), Gottman Institute Four Horsemen / 5:1 Ratio, College Tomorrow 20s Research Institute (2024), Statistics on Dating Violence in Korea This video is for informational purposes only and does not require professional counseling. It does not replace. #DatingPsychology #NonDating #NeverDated #DatingViolence #LoveBombing #Gaslighting #AttachmentTypes #HealthyDating #UnhealthyLove #DatingPhobia