The Covert Abuse Trick That Turns You Into the Defendant

You keep explaining because he’s trained you to believe that if you can just say it the right way, he’ll finally understand. But the trap is, he’s not looking for clarity, he’s looking for control. In this live, I’ll break down the tactics abusers use to put you on trial, keep you defending yourself, and turn your explanations into “evidence” against you. You’ll learn why explaining doesn’t create safety with someone committed to misunderstanding you, and how to step out of the interrogation cycle. Subscribe for more videos that expose abuse tactics and answer the questions you've always wondered about toxic and abusive relationships. Connect with Resources Get more education, 24/7 healing and resources inside my online community She Rises Collective: https://strongerthanbefore.ca/membership Join our 12-Week Group Coaching Programs with me and Dr. Peter Salerno https://strongerthanbefore.ca/group-c... Take the free 2-minute Trauma Bond Quiz https://kcdplmm983r.typeform.com/trau... Are You Trauma Bonded? Take this free 2 minute quiz with instant results: https://kcdplmm983r.typeform.com/trau... Where Am I In My Healing? Take this free 2 minute quiz with instant results: https://kcdplmm983r.typeform.com/to/x... Work With Me Book a 1:1 Recovery Strategy Session or a Coaching Package https://strongerthanbefore.ca/book-a-... Trauma Bond Recovery Course https://strongerthanbefore.ca/trauma-... Website https://strongerthanbefore.ca About Lisa Sonni Abusive relationship educator and trauma bond recovery expert. Certified Trauma Recovery Coach, creator of the Break & Rebuild Method, and author of four abuse-recovery books. Host of Relationships Uncensored Podcast. #NarcissisticAbuse #TraumaRecovery #NarcissisticAbuseRecovery #TraumaBonding #EmotionalAbuse #NarcissisticPersonalityDisorder #HealingFromTrauma #ToxicRelationships ⚠️ DISCLAIMER: This content is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not therapy or medical advice. Always seek professional help for your specific situation.