Как не залипать на девушку

You meet someone, and she becomes everything to you. At that moment, you've screwed everything up. Not when she dumps you, but right now. You've created a situation that will 99% likely end in depression, apathy, and so on. Why? - Because she'll dump you; it's just a matter of time. And you'll experience it painfully and begin to humiliate yourself. a) Firstly, putting a woman on a pedestal guarantees she'll dump you. You're provoking her. b) Secondly, dumping is actually a common occurrence. Back when I first met my future wife, I was often late for dates. Not on purpose. I was simply afraid to arrive early. I knew it would provoke her to grow a sense of self-importance, and that's a surefire way to get nowhere. What should I do? Do you have hobbies? If not, you shouldn't date. If she's your only passion, she'll quickly drive you to some very dangerous thoughts. If there are any, then one of them is the first. The difference with the second is 10%. A girl appears, she becomes the first, but the difference with the second is 10,000%. Then there's a breakup and the feeling that everything else is uninteresting. You should immediately start developing your second hobby so that the gap isn't huge. You should have a deputy who will become the main one if the main one is replaced. Do you fish? Got a girlfriend? Devote more time and money to fishing. Take your girlfriend fishing. The loss of the first one and its replacement by the second is not a painful phenomenon, it is painful when there is no one to replace it. It's the same with any hobby. Even with a car. What if you crash it? PayPal [email protected] WebMoney WMZ Z878722914165 WMR R812257301000 Yandex Money 410015807977863 Donations http://www.donationalerts.ru/r/iogann Personal consultation via Skype on any issues, except legal ones (we have a dedicated partner for those) - 2,000 rubles/hour. Sign up by email at [email protected] Download Johann Sebastian's book "To Each His Own" https://bookscriptor.ru/books/kazhdom... Download Johann Sebastian's Second Book (dedicated to my faithful and most beloved witch) https://bookscriptor.ru/books/seks-s-... Johann's Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ioganseb/?h... VK Group https://vk.com/club138211643