The Extraverted Feeling (Fe) Dilemma Explained | ENFJ, ESFJ, INFJ, ISFJ

In this video, I talk about the Extraverted Feeling dilemma — how easily we can absorb other people’s emotions and mistake them for our own. I share real examples of picking up sadness and shame that weren’t mine, and how awareness helped me release them. If you identify with Fe (especially INFJ, ENFJ, or ISFJ types), this video will help you understand emotional boundaries, self-awareness, and how to stay centered while still being deeply empathetic. Support this work: 💡 Get early access & behind-the-scenes content →   / scottmorgan   👕 Shop meaningful designs & channel art → COMING SOON! 🎧 Listen to the audio version → IN THE WORKS! PayPal: paypal.me/scottericmorgan Connect: Counselling Updates → 🌐 https://scottericmorgan.com/ Facebook →   / scottericmorgan   Instagram →   / scottericmorgan   X → https://x.com/scottericmorgan TikTok →   / scottericmorgan   Pinterest →   / scottericmorgan   Other Video Platforms Odysee: https://odysee.com/@scottmorgan:1 Bitchute: https://www.bitchute.com/jf0eYlhpCjxR/ Rumble: https://rumble.com/c/c-7804410 About Scott: Scott Morgan is a counsellor and content creator exploring how to live from the inside out in an upside-down world. His work blends psychological insight, faith, and reflection to help people think more deeply and live more freely. #ScottMorgan #InsideOutLiving #FaithAndMeaning #UpsideDownWorld Community Guidelines: This channel exists to explore deeper questions and have honest conversations. To protect that purpose, we ask everyone here to speak with respect — even when we disagree. Comments that are intentionally hurtful, manipulative, or disruptive may be hidden and accounts blocked to keep this space welcoming and constructive. 0:00 – Intro | The Extraverted Feeling (Fe) Dilemma 0:08 – What Makes Fe a “Helping” Function 0:26 – When We Internalize Other People’s Emotions 0:52 – Conscious vs Unconscious Emotional Absorption 1:32 – How Childhood and Codependency Amplify Fe Issues 2:38 – Confusion Between “My Feelings” and “Theirs” 3:06 – Over-Responsibility and Emotional Imbalance 3:33 – Real Example: Absorbing Someone Else’s Depression 4:40 – Real Example: Carrying Group Shame 6:25 – Recognizing When Emotions Aren’t Yours 6:48 – The Importance of Self-Awareness for Fe Types 7:54 – How to Create Emotional Boundaries 8:52 – Using Check-Ins to Stay Grounded in Yourself 9:44 – Differentiating Between “Mine” and “Theirs” 10:16 – The Paradox: Awareness Strengthens True Empathy 11:02 – Closing Thoughts and Reflections