【なぜか好かれる人がやっている100の習慣】藤本梨恵子｜“好かれる”は、生まれつきじゃない

▼ This book (If you're using Kindle, you can start reading it in seconds after closing this video) "100 Habits of People Who Are Liked for Some Reason" by Rieko Fujimoto → View on Amazon: https://amzn.to/4vvU9on → Free for Kindle Unlimited members: https://amzn.to/4uTwIFG Available on Kindle Unlimited at the time of publication. Why are some people "liked for some reason" while others are not, even when doing the same things? We tend to think it's due to differences in innate personality or appearance. However, this book argues that being liked or not isn't about talent, but about subtle differences in "perspective" and "interaction" habits. Facial expressions, listening style, the direction of one's thoughts, the interpretation of events... each of these is explored in depth over approximately two hours, supplemented by the underlying psychology (mirroring, reciprocity, reframing, solution-focused), going beyond a simple summary to offering actionable steps you can take today. ▼ Chapters 0:00 Why is that person liked "for some reason"? 7:24 Facial expressions transcend appearance 14:45 "Similarity" creates a sense of security 22:35 The whole is reflected in the parts 29:33 Point the arrow of your heart from yourself to the other person 38:40 Understanding feelings is more important than logic 49:13 The quality of your questions determines the quality of your life 57:10 Stop striving for perfection and be able to show your weaknesses 67:29 Not judging others makes you feel lighter 74:58 Events are neutral, you decide the meaning yourself 82:48 Your catchphrases shape who you are 91:26 Don't be swayed by others (the true nature of jealousy) 98:24 One person who believes in you helps you grow 106:42 "Being liked" is a habit, not a talent — The Book Summary Center delivers books that busy modern people should read now. Your channel subscriptions and likes are greatly appreciated! This description contains affiliate links. This summary center earns revenue through eligible sales, such as through Amazon Associates. This video is a re-edited version of the book's content, presented as a critique, summary, and prescription. This book is based on the author's (Rieko Fujimoto's) views, and interpretations may vary from person to person; no specific results are guaranteed.