AITA for announcing my divorce at a dinner my wife planned to shame me?

My wife slid her phone across the kitchen counter and said, “I need freedom, not permission.” I asked, “Does freedom already have a name?” She called me insecure. Then her screen lit up with a text: “Did he finally agree, or are you still framing it as self-discovery?” By Sunday, the dinner she had planned to shame me became the setting for my divorce announcement. ---------------🌞Sunny Stories🌞--------------- #reddit #stories #redditstories