Почему ты говоришь о себе, когда нужно слушать

There's a way to cut someone off without raising your voice, arguing, or even seeming rude. On the contrary: from the outside, it looks like engagement, a lively response, an attempt to keep the conversation going. You quickly pick up on someone else's phrase, immediately identifying a similar situation in your own life, and not letting the conversation linger. And it's at that moment that the other person begins to disappear from the conversation. This video is about the habit of responding before someone else's thought has a chance to form. It's not about politeness or "bad communication" in general, but about something more unpleasant: when similarity kicks in before understanding, and your own story becomes a way to avoid someone else's ambiguity, delays, and raw, difficult meaning. Then you seem to be there, but after your participation in the conversation, more of you remains than the person who started the conversation. What's important here isn't the loud conflict, but the quiet loss: they stop telling you what they started the conversation for. If this moment is too recognizable, you can stay for the next videos. For educational purposes only. This does not constitute medical advice.