「人に嫌われた…」と悩むHSPへ/気持ちがラクになる7つのこと

"I'm having some awkwardness with people..." I'll answer that worry. This time, I talked to HSPs about what to do when you're worried that someone dislikes you. I'm a qualified mental health counselor and behavioral psychologist, and I'm an advisor specializing in HSPs. I receive about 100 comments and consultations every day. I've answered the concerns of over 2,000 people so far. ▼Click here for my second book▼ "I've decided to stop being manipulated" https://amzn.to/3tFimKy [Click here to subscribe]    / @cocoyowa   Human relationships are hurtful in the first place. It's almost impossible not to get hurt. So it's common for people to dislike you. If you get happy or sad because someone dislikes you, you'll only do things to avoid being disliked. Let's also look at the relationships in the first place. Please make use of it. *Additional useful videos ●"Quick and easy" 8 tips to reduce the strain of human relationships / Summary of points for HSPs    • 『早わかり』人間関係のしんどさを減らすコツ8選/HSPさん向けポイントまとめ   ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Community for sensitive people ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ●Cocoiro Salon https://lounge.dmm.com/detail/3588/ ☆You can learn from the various messages of experts with HSP temperament and interact with other participants. It can be used safely and securely as a closed SNS. Various events and regular live performances are also held. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Consultations, information on how to live as an HSP, and consultation desk ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ☆Friend-making and consultation service for HSPs [HSP Textbook] More than 1,000 people are participating. A weekly email newsletter with 20,000 to 50,000 characters of HSP, HSS-type HSP, and HSE information. Various content is available, such as limited live shows, limited radio, limited videos, and consultation forms. Please also use it if you would like to consult Ryota about your problems. I will explain each one in detail. *Consultations that are not related to HSPs...work or family-related matters are also welcome. I will answer as an advisor. Click here for details and registration ↓↓ ▶ https://cocoyowa.com/mail-magazine/hs... Won 1st place in the 2020 MagMag Grand Prize Newcomer Award. Won first place in the 2021 MagMag Grand Prize by them award. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Books for HSPs ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ▼Latest Amazon "I've decided to stop being manipulated"▼ https://amzn.to/3tFimKy ▼Amazon "A book that helps you live for yourself even if you are too concerned about others"▼ https://amzn.to/3nuooKl ▼Table of contents▼ 0:00 Today's theme 0:29 For HSPs who worry about being disliked by others① Being disliked is common 3:17 For HSPs who worry about being disliked by others② How much of an impact does it have? 5:42 For HSPs who worry about being disliked by others③ Was there anything unreasonable about the relationship? 8:03 For HSPs who worry about being disliked by others ④ Were there issues on both sides? 10:29 For HSPs who worry about being disliked by others ⑤ Relationships change 13:15 For HSPs who worry about being disliked by others ⑥ It's impossible to be liked by everyone 16:03 For HSPs who worry about being disliked by others ⑦ You can't change the other person ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related, educational videos ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● "Eye-opening" The key to human relationships is to increase the number of loose relationships! / For those of you who are worried about social interactions    • 『目からウロコ』人間関係はゆるい関係を増やすのが鍵!/人付き合いで悩むあなたへ   ● Human relationships Talk about the importance of "horizontal connections" in a department / HSPs should stay away from vertical relationships    • 人間関係で重要な『横のつながり』の話/HSPは縦の関係から離れよう   ● 6 ways to think about not expecting too much from others / Reduce worries in human relationships    • 他人に期待しすぎない考え方6つ/人間関係の悩みを減らそう   ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related blog articles you should read ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● Blogs that make life easier for HSPs and sensitive people https://cocoyowa.com/ ● Summary of each diagnostic test for HSPs "Three types: introverted HSP, HSS type, and HSE" https://cocoyowa. com/test/ ●Recommended job change service for HSPs: "Partial interview accompaniment, same-day handling of resignation, etc." https://cocoyowa.com/hsp/change-of-jo... ●[Archived version] Summary of HSP job selection strategies / Explained along with 10 suitable occupations https://cocoyowa.com/hsp/shigoto-erabi/ ●[Reduce regrets] What is the reason when life doesn't go well? Explains the wrong choices made by the majority of people https://cocoyowa.com/life/life-is-not... ●I'm afraid of being disliked by others... Introducing ways to improve your fear of people based on psychology and characteristics https://cocoyowa.com/hsp/scared-to-be... ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's SNS accounts ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● Blog [Cocoyowa] https://cocoyowa.com/ ● instagram   / ryo_shigoto   ● stand.fm (Radio - Answering letters) https://stand.fm/channels/5f5c6ddcf04... ● Voicy (Radio - Lifestyle, a relaxed lifesty...

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