자식이 예전 같지 않다면 붙잡지 마세요｜멀어진 게 아니라 달라진 겁니다

There are times when you feel your child isn't the same as they used to be. They used to be the child who would call first and talk about even the smallest things. Now, however, communication becomes shorter, replies are delayed, and sometimes, it feels as though they are just waiting for you. At such times, a sense of disappointment arises in a parent's heart. However, that disappointment is not a strange emotion. It is a natural feeling that arises because you deeply love your child. However, if you cling to those feelings as they are, or express them with phrases like "Why haven't you heard from me?" or "When are you coming?", it can feel like a burden rather than love to your child. In this video, we calmly discuss the reasons why your child feels different than before, why love doesn't disappear just because communication has decreased, and the words parents should reduce and replace with a single phrase starting today. Not holding on does not mean giving up. It is not a disconnection, but a way of adjusting the distance. Holding on less does not mean love diminishes. On the contrary, it can be an act of creating a space where your child can comfortably return. I hope today's video helps you quietly come to terms with any feelings of hurt towards your children. #SeniorMind #ParentChildRelationship #WhenYouFeelSorryAboutYourChildren #SettingYourMind #MindOfOldAge