Not like other girls, pick me girls...what about MEN?

In this video I discuss how the AAVE phrase "pick me" has been adopted by social media and how its meaning has become distorted. I also question if it can be meaningfully applied to men or if it's fundamentally a commentary on internalised misogyny. Nebula: https://go.nebula.tv/taramooknee Chapters: 0:00 Intro & cow talk 0:56 What is a "pick me?" 3:40 Is it just name-calling? 9:42 What are "pick me BOYS" then? 13:40 Origins of the "pick me boy" 18:37 The TikTok Renaissance 20:15 Is calling a girl a "pick me" sexist? 22:31 Are they just "nice guys?" 25:00 Are they always "feminists?" 26:53 Issues & final thoughts 29:29 Pet Shoutout & Siggy Videos I mentioned: Tee Noir:    • "The Black Girl Fetish": Let's Talk.   Sarah Z:    • "I'm Not Like Other Girls"   🐄 Artwork by the majestic Sara Spellhammer Insta:   / carapacemaul   Shop: https://www.redbubble.com/people/Spel... Jumper from: https://www.innerpeach.co/sweatshirts Support me on Patreon:   / mooknee   Follow me:   / romooknee   Follow Siggy:   / siggytheiggy