How To Be A REAL Gentleman: Why YouTubers & Influencers Are WRONG

In the over a decade I've been on YouTube, this has to be one of the most requested subjects from my audience: How does one become a true gentleman? I've put off making this video for so long, because I truly didn't feel qualified, but I've come to the age where I've been around the block a few times, and I feel confident enough to finally share some of my life lessons with you. Before we embark on this new series—or what I hope to be a series of videos—we have to understand what the endless videos on this subject on YouTube are getting wrong. Why are their claims and definition of a gentleman so misleading, or even worse, a scam? Join me for a deep dive into the illusory nature of "old money style" as refinement, the absurdity of aesthetics masquerading as sophistication, and the fallacy that one can become a gentleman via consumerism on social media. What qualities do you believe makes a good gentleman? And what's the worst advice you've heard on this topic? Please share in the comments! Get your Urban Gentry coffee mug, #wristwatchcheck tee, and more official merch: https://the-urban-gentry-shop.creator... Check out The Urban Gentry Amazon store for items in this video. As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases: https://www.amazon.com/shop/theurbang... Follow The Urban Gentry on Instagram:   / theurbangentrychannel   Strap on my Janeiro: https://holbensfinewatchbands.com/pro... Join us on Facebook to get your watch or Gentry related questions answered, and engage with some of the community beyond YouTube:   / 1503241666636531   Thank you for watching The Urban Gentry channel, home of the #wristwatchcheck! Check out my other videos for more watch and lifestyle content. If Luxury Watch Ads Were Real:    • If Luxury Watch Ads Were Real...When Rolex...   Watch Collecting Ruined My Life:    • Watch Collecting RUINED My Life - Why The ...   Best and Worst Watches of 2024:    • Best & Worst Watches Of 2024: Patek, Rolex...   My 2024 State of the Collection:    • 2024 State Of The Collection: Rolex, Seiko...   My 2024 EDC:    • My 2024 EDC Essentials: Most Worn Watches,...   Presenting the Rangemaster II Watch:    • The Ultimate Affordable Automatic GMT Watc...   The Essential Guide to Watches & Strap Pairing:    • How To Match Your Clothes To The Best Watc...   Top 10 Watch Collecting Mistakes:    • Don't Buy A Watch Until You've Seen This: ...   The Hidden Meanings of the Luxury Watch:    • The Power, Secret Meaning & History: Why G...   #HowTo #gentleman #style #tissot #mensstyle #fashion #mensfashion