Single by Choice is not a real thing? w/ MrKing (@stayslickwithkit )

My second Appearance on ‪@stayslickwithkit‬ Podcast The phrase "single by choice" has become increasingly common, but what does it actually mean? Are people genuinely choosing a life without romantic relationships, or is the reality often more complicated? In this video, we explore the different reasons people remain single, from personal freedom and career goals to dating frustrations, changing standards, and a lack of compatible partners. Not everyone who is single is actively searching for a relationship. Some people enjoy the independence, peace, and flexibility that comes with being on their own. Others may have experienced difficult relationships in the past and consciously decide that staying single is the better option. At the same time, there are also people who claim to be single by choice when the choice may not be entirely theirs, raising questions about whether being single is always a deliberate decision. This discussion takes a balanced look at the realities of modern dating, personal agency, attraction, and relationship dynamics. Whether you believe that being single is a genuine lifestyle choice or think that circumstances play a larger role than people admit, this conversation explores the nuances behind one of the most debated topics in dating today. Timestamps ⏰ 00:00 Intro 01:04 First Date Expectations 03:04 Genuine Interest vs Just S3x 04:42 Ignoring Red Flags 06:50 Leading With S3x 10:25 Single By Choice Myth 14:36 Standards Built on Pain 20:20 How Top Men Ruin Dating 29:32 Toxic Casual Rotations 35:34 Why Women Choose Bad Boys 42:08 Nice Girls Finish Last 46:15 Red Pill and Sprinkle Sprinkle 49:21 Money vs Real Investment 53:36 Female Competition Dark Side 01:00:53 Red Flag Green Flag Game 01:03:46 OnlyFans Dealbreakers 01:06:06 If He Wanted To He Would Flaw 01:09:05 I Don't Need a Man Red Flag 01:13:38 Soft Girl Era Problems 01:16:07 6 Foot 6 Figure Delusion 01:19:46 When She Earns More 01:22:30 Why Men Skip Singles Events 01:30:10 Outro