Cómo educar con límites, amor y humor | Guembe y Goñi

Raising children isn't easy, but it is one of the most decisive and beautiful adventures a family can undertake. In this episode of Coffee with the Author, we talk with Pilar Guembe (educator, counselor, and teacher) and Carlos Goñi (PhD in Philosophy, professor, and writer) about their book, "What is Given Cannot Be Taken Away: The Responsibility and Privilege of Educating." Through anecdotes and practical reflections, we discuss what truly "remains" with children: example, consistency, time, boundaries, and the emotional climate at home. We also address current issues such as screens and mobile phones, how to set boundaries without guilt, and why raising children requires serenity, affection, gentle demands, love, and humor. 00:00 Introduction and authors (background and experience) 01:13 What does "What is Given Cannot Be Taken Away" mean? (Example that remains) 02:19 The power of example: what the child imitates 03:16 What this book offers: anecdotes to think about (without “recipes”) 04:23 The “rope walker” and the foundation built by parents 05:07 Daily consistency: what educates most are inconsistencies 06:14 “VAR” for parents: stop and reflect 07:11 Love and humor: rules yes, but with a good atmosphere 07:41 Educating without shouting + gentle demands 08:27 Guilt and self-demand: changing blame for solutions 10:07 Saying sorry also educates 10:57 Improvisation and punishments: think before acting 11:51 Time and screens: looking up from your phone 13:02 Family gatherings without reproaches: the “sandwich” technique 14:29 "MIR for Parents": Training and Developmental Psychology 16:17 Mobile Phones and Social Media: Limits, Criteria, and "Everyone Has One" 18:29 Parents as "Air Traffic Controllers" (Accompanying Without Piloting) 21:02 Educating = Teaching the Correct Use of Freedom 24:18 School Failure as a Collective Challenge: Self-Esteem, Limits, and Presence 26:08 "Preparing Children for the Path" (Not the Path for Them) 29:58 Closing: Responsibility and Privilege of Educating https://www.edesclee.com/amae/2593-lo... #Education #Parenting #Limits #Screens #Family #ParentingWithoutYelling