Is It Love Or Is It Settling?

Today we're digging into the myth of instant chemistry as Kait and JJ unpack why moderate attraction matters, challenge Disney-style romance expectations, and share stories (including their own) about how attraction can genuinely grow over time! -------------------- TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Dealing with lack of attraction 04:18 Discussing fears of being settled for 07:09 Discussing physical attraction expectations 12:09 Cultural impact on attraction standards 14:50 Discussing attraction levels in dating 17:06 Physical attraction in long-term couples 20:03 Discussing initial attraction dynamics 24:02 Building emotional and spiritual connection 27:11 Heart of Dating podcast credits Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https://www.heartofdating.com/basics-... Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon!   / heartofdating   Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resourc... Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library! https://www.heartofdating.com/resourc... Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB!   / heartofdatingpodcast   Come hang with us on the gram:   / heartofdating     / kaitness   https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?h... Interested in advertising on this show? Learn more here! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/16V_c... . . . . . Check out this week's sponsors: ARMRA: ARMRA colostrum strengthens immunity, improves my fitness and metabolism, and elevates my skin. Go to tryarmra.com/HOD or enter HOD to get 15% off your first order. Better Help: This episode is sponsored by/brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/HOD and get on your way to being your best self. . . . . . We love hearing from you! Drop a comment to tell us what spoke to you in this episode. If you have any topics or questions you'd like us to dive into in future episodes, drop them in the comments as well, and we'll work hard to tackle them!