I Think I Might Be Bi. Now What? | What Nobody Tells You

If you've ever typed "am I bi" into a search bar at 1am and then deleted your search history afterward, this one's for you. You're not the only one. Not even close. In this episode I get into the actual data on how many men live somewhere between "straight" and "gay" — the numbers that prove you're not rare, broken, or alone — and what the questioning actually feels like from someone who's lived it. Then, where to go from here, without having to pick a label, come out, or tell anyone anything. Maybe your life looks straight on the outside but isn’t so straight on the inside. Maybe you're bi or gay but don't fit neatly into the spaces designed for you. Maybe you don't have a word for what you are, and maybe you don't want one. Either way, you exist somewhere in the middle, and the world doesn't have a lot of space for that. Middle Men does. No labels. No judgment. No pressure to be anything other than exactly where you are. ⏱️ CHAPTERS 0:00 — Intro 1:11 — What Questioning Feels Like 2:39 — The Numbers: You're Not the Only One 3:44 — Why Don’t They Just Come Out of the Closet? 4:46 — Where Do I Go From Here? 5:20 — The Middle Men Community 6:44 — Half-price Middle Men Membership 📚 SOURCE Bennett BW, et al. "Population Percentage and Population Size of Men Who Have Sex With Men in the United States, 2017–2021: Meta-Analysis of 5 Population-Based Surveys." JMIR Public Health and Surveillance, 2024. https://publichealth.jmir.org/2024/1/... 🔗 JOIN THE MIDDLE MEN COMMUNITY A private, anonymous space to connect with other guys in the middle: https://www.middlemen-podcast.com/com... 📩 GET THE NEWSLETTER Bi-weekly resources, articles, and content from the middle: https://www.middlemen-podcast.com/#ne... 🏃 JOIN THE STRAVA CLUB For the runners, riders, and endurance guys:   / strava   📝 READ MORE ON SUBSTACK https://www.middlemenwcfc.substack.com 🤔 ”AM I A MIDDLE MAN?” Take the anonymous Middle Men survey to find out — and see the overall survey results: https://www.middlemen-podcast.com/survey 🎧 PREFER AUDIO? Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/4MOP... Apple Podcasts: 📱 FOLLOW Instagram:   / middlemenwcfc   TikTok:   / middlemenwcfc   X: https://www.x.com/MiddleMenWCFC Facebook:   / middlemenwcfc   💸 SUPPORT MIDDLE MEN Donate to support the podcast, online community, and more. https://www.middlemen-podcast.com/donate If this resonated, subscribe so you don't miss the next one; it's about the pressure to pick a side, straight or gay, and why you don't actually have to. #MiddleMen #Bisexual #MensMentalHealth #Authenticity #amibi #closetedmen