When in Doubt, Do Something Stupid: Life Change and the Intolerance of Triviality
What prevents people from making change in their lives? Most are tempted to say that it's a lack of motivation. But often the problem is TOO MUCH motivation. People want to make big changes that they can't sustain. The solution may be to scale down to something so small as to seem trivial or foolish: walking one block, eating one salad, refusing one request, turning down one drink. Great dams collapse due to all-but-invisible cracks. Our intolerance of triviality, however, may hide the path forward from us. I'm the author of books on assertiveness and private practice, in addition to the "How to be Miserable" books. To see my books at Amazon, visit: https://amzn.to/2VtGHjy For Amazon Canada: https://amzn.to/3oIEbFm I also provide continuing education online courses for professionals, as well as live and on-demand courses for the general public and organizations. For my online course site visit: http://bit.ly/35CNJua For more information on my books and programs, please visit my personal site at http://randypaterson.com/ #goals #goalsetting #lifechange

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