Episode 3: Should I split the bill on dates?

Two psychologists discuss when and how to talk about splitting the bill on dates. 00:00 Introduction 03:12 Iceberg metaphor 06:15 Cultural norms and implicit agreement 11:16 Equality and feminism 13:05 The risks 17:05 When should we bring it up? 23:01 Authenticity and values 27:25 How to have the conversation? Liang Liao, Ph.D.: www.brightstarscounseling.com David Messer, Ph.D. : www.davidmesserphd.com Note: This channel is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Viewing this content does not create a therapist–client relationship. If you are experiencing distress, mental health concerns, or a crisis, please seek help from a qualified mental health professional in your area. If you are in the United States and in crisis, you can call or text 988 or use webchat at 988lifeline.org. If you are outside the U.S., please find a crisis helpline in your country.