She Thinks It's Shameful. My Culture Says It's Obligation.

Sending money back home is an expectation in Nigerian culture — but not everyone sees it that way. Augustus and Alexis get into one of the most sensitive financial conversations in their marriage. Where do you draw the line between family obligation and protecting your own household? Drop your experience in the comments. 0:00 — Checking In 4:27 — The Pattern: Sending Money Home Consistently 8:39 — Why It's Hard To Say No: The Savior Complex & Cultural Obligation 14:00 — Two Cultures, Two Definitions Of Family Support 22:01 — How We Navigate The Black Tax In Our Marriage