Lo que pasa dentro de un evitativo cuando empieza a sentir demasiado

IF YOU'RE IN AN ANXIOUS-AVOIDANT RELATIONSHIP AND FEEL LIKE YOU CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE… THIS IS FOR YOU: 👉 Discover how we work to heal attachment from the root👇 👇👇: https://web.proyectoenblanco.com/proy... 📞 WANT A ONE-ON-ONE SESSION WITH US?👉 https://proyectoenblanco.my.canva.site Why does the other person pull away just when things are getting better? In this second episode of our 8-part series on attachment, we delve into the mystery that most baffles anxious people: the avoidant person's fear of intimacy. When the connection becomes real, the avoidant person doesn't see love, they see a loss of control. Together with Marian and Sebas, today we discover what an avoidant person truly feels when they begin to "feel too much" and why their automatic response is withdrawal. If you've ever felt abandoned at the peak of a relationship, this video is for you. CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Introduction: The Avoidant's Unconscious Fear. 01:57 - Welcome to Project Blank: An introduction to the 8-chapter series. 03:12 - When does the avoidant's fear begin to activate? (The two main reasons). 05:54 - Option 1: When the relationship becomes "heavy" or demanding. 06:33 - Option 2: When the relationship becomes too deep or intimate. 08:58 - The beginning of your relationship: Sebas's intensity and Marian's mistrust. 15:52 - Reactions to danger: Fight, flight, or freeze (Marian's case). 18:47 - Break: Introduction to the "Reconnect" space for working on emotional patterns. 21:39 - Signs of activation by proximity: Need for space and distancing. 24:50 - Conversations about the future: Why don't avoidant people usually initiate them? 30:00 - Common mistakes of anxious people: Chasing, demanding, and controlling. 33:11 - What can anxious people do to maintain the situation? 35:32 - How to know if it's worth working on the relationship: Levels of awareness of avoidant people. 39:44 - Conclusion and community resources. What we will analyze today: ✅ The exact moment when the avoidant person's fear is activated. ✅ Why "fleeing from intimacy" is not the same as "stopping loving." ✅ Marian tells us firsthand what she felt when someone got "too close." ✅ The 5 signs that your partner is pulling away out of fear (and not lack of interest). ✅ What to do (and what NOT to do) to avoid scaring an avoidant person further without losing your dignity. This is Chapter 2 of our Special Series on Attachment. If you haven't seen the first one, we recommend watching it here 👇:    • ¿Realmente me AMO? La verdad del APEGO EVI...   Keep learning at PROYECTO EN BLANCO: 📸 Follow us on all our social media #HealthyRelationships #Psychology #Attachment #ProyectoEnBlanco #EmotionalIntimacy #MentalHealth Workbook on Anxious Attachment: https://amzn.eu/d/4MqWTBD Workbook on Avoidant Attachment: https://amzn.eu/d/9xTK713 INSTAGRAM: @proyectoenblanco.insta TIKTOK: @proyectoenblancoms