The Avoidant Shutdown: What’s Happening Beneath the Surface, Why You’re Not Broken & What to Do

Take our Attachment Style Quiz 👉 https://ar-code.men/attachment-quiz ❃❃❃ Video Content ❃❃❃ Something that can be very confusing in relationships is the avoidant’s shutdown, and this is usually equally as confusing to the avoidant as it is to their partner. In this video I explain what happens when an avoidant shuts down, and what needs to change, so they don’t have to. ❃❃ The Avoidant Reset Code ❃❃❃ https://ar-code.men/ ❃❃❃ My Webpage ❃❃❃ https://maikasteinborn.com/ ❃❃❃ The Heartmend Collective ❃❃❃ 👥 A supportive space for deeper understanding and healing: https://maikasteinborn.com/membership ❃❃❃ What To Watch Next ❃❃ ▶ Psychologist Explains What Helps Avoidants Heal | Healing An Avoidant Attachment Style    • Psychologist Explains What Helps Avoidants...   ▶ Psychologist On 10 Signs You Might Be Avoidantly-Attached | Signs Of An Avoidant Attachment Style    • Psychologist On 10 Signs You Might Be Avoi...   ▶ How We Unconsciously Destroy Emotional Intimacy And Keep Others At A Distance    • How We Unconsciously Destroy Emotional Int...   ▶ Psychologist Explains How To Uncover The Emotional Depth That Lies Hidden In Your Inner World    • Psychologist Explains How To Uncover The E...   ▶ Attachment styles playlist:    • Attachment Styles   ❃❃❃ Helplines ❃❃❃ If you're struggling and need immediate support, please reach out to a helpline in your country. You're not alone. 📞 USA: National Suicide Prevention Lifeline – 988 (24/7) 📞 UK: Samaritans – 116 123 (24/7) 📞 Canada: Talk Suicide Canada – 1-833-456-4566 (24/7) 📞 India: Vandrevala Foundation Helpline – 1860 266 2345 / iCall – +91 9152987821 📞 Australia: Lifeline – 13 11 14 (24/7) 📞 Germany: Telefonseelsorge – 0800 111 0111 / 0800 111 0222 (24/7) You can also find more support options at befrienders.org. 💙 ❃❃❃ Video Chapters ❃❃❃ 00:00 Introduction 00:19 What an Avoidant's Shutdown Is 00:55 When It Happens 01:29 What It Looks Like on the Surface 01:57 Deeper Issue 04:15 Memories Not Facts 06:12 It's About Closeness 08:19 Healing 11:12 Skills 13:09 Summary ❃❃❃ Video Editing ❃❃❃ Deva Acharya Yaksic ❃❃❃ Music & Sound Effects ❃❃❃ You're No Help - Silent Partner https://bit.ly/2XcJkJbClick Sound Effects - Free Sound https://bit.ly/2zYikVK ❃❃❃ Disclaimer ❃❃❃ I do not make any warranties about the completeness, reliability and accuracy of the information given on this channel. Any action you take upon the information on this channel is strictly at your own risk, and I will not be liable for any losses and damages in connection to the use of my channel. The information I provide cannot be taken as a substitute for advice, diagnosis or treatment by mental health professionals. Please consult your health professionals before making health-related decisions. #avoidantattachment #avoidantattachmentstyle #avoidant Keywords: maika steinborn, avoidant attachment style, healing avoidant attachment, how to heal avoidant attachment, heal avoidant attachment style, what helps avoidants heal, avoidant attachment style healing, avoidant attachment style in relationships, avoidant attachment explained, avoidant attachment love, avoidant attachment to secure, avoidant attachment style how to overcome, avoidant shutdown, avoidant deactivating, dismissive avoidant, dismissive avoidant deactivating

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