Foster Youth EP 8 - Supporting Foster Youth Through Trauma and Transition

In this episode of Fostering Futures with CAHELP, Athena Cordero sits down with Mark Todhunter, Behavioral Health Counselor Supervisor at Desert Mountain Children’s Center, to explore the mental health realities of foster youth. Mark shares his decades of experience working with children in foster care, offering powerful insight into how removal, placement changes, and ongoing uncertainty deeply impact a child’s identity, sense of safety, and ability to form connections. He explains how foster youth often experience both trauma and ongoing grief and loss losing not only their families, but also their homes, schools, routines, and sense of belonging. The conversation dives into how these experiences show up as behavioral and emotional challenges, and why those behaviors are often forms of communication rather than defiance. Mark also emphasizes the critical role of consistent, caring adults in helping foster youth begin to rebuild trust, develop coping skills, and form healthy attachments over time. This episode highlights the importance of patience, consistency, and understanding for foster parents and caregivers, while offering a new perspective on what it truly takes to support the mental health and long-term success of children in foster care. Highlights • Mark explains how removal from home impacts identity, stability, and belonging. • Insight into grief and loss as ongoing experiences for foster youth. • How trauma shows up as behavioral and emotional responses. • Overview of mental health supports, including counseling and behavioral services. • The importance of consistent, caring adults in a child’s life. • Real perspective on what foster parenting requires beyond good intentions. Key Takeaways • Foster youth experience trauma, grief, and loss simultaneously and continuously. • Behaviors are often communication, not defiance. • Identity and belonging are major challenges for children in foster care. • Consistency from adults is critical to developing trust and attachment. • Foster parenting requires new skills, patience, and emotional regulation. • Even short-term placements can create lasting, positive impact. Thanks for listening! Follow us on Facebook (  / jpa.cahelp  ) and Instagram (  / cahelp_jpa  ) | www.cahelp.org (https://www.cahelp.org) | [email protected] (mailto:[email protected])