How Do You Stop Overfunctioning in Midlife? A Personal Story of Moving, Rest & Letting Go of Shame

Summary: Dr. Natalie shares her personal journey through moving, shredding decades of paperwork, and navigating midlife challenges, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness, rest, and intentional living during perimenopause. She aims in this episode to quelch the shame we feel when looking back across our lives and realizing how overfunctioning has come at a high cost. Keywords: midlife, perimenopause, self-care, moving, trauma, overfunctioning, regulated nervous system, self-awareness, mental health, personal growth Key topics: • Midlife transition and self-awareness • The significance of rest and self-care during perimenopause • Personal stories of moving and decluttering as a metaphor for life changes • Trauma responses and overfunctioning in women • The importance of creating a sanctuary and setting boundaries Takeaways: • Rest is a form of self-love and essential for health during midlife. • Decluttering can be a powerful act of self-discovery and healing. • Overfunctioning is often a trauma response that comes at a high personal cost. • Self-awareness allows for conscious choices that align with one’s well-being. • Midlife is an opportunity for renewal and creating a life that feels right. Resources & Links to Connect with Dr. Natalie:Learn to Love Your Story Coaching- ⁠⁠⁠https://learntoloveyourstory.com⁠⁠⁠ (about:invalid#zCSafez) Dr. Natalie’s Counseling Practice - ⁠⁠⁠https://nataliemarcounseling.com (about:invalid#zCSafez) ⁠⁠⁠ If you are in MN, book your free 15-minute consultation with Dr. Natalie. Facebook:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠  / learntoloveyourstory⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   (about:invalid#zCSafez) Instagram:⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠  / dr.nataliemarr   (about:invalid#zCSafez) ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Linked In:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  / ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠tik   Tok:⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠  / doc.natalie⁠   (about:invalid#zCSafez) Sound bites • "Looking at it in black and white was profound." • "Midlife is a miracle, not a crisis." • "Choose yourself every day." Chapters 00:00 Navigating Life Transitions 08:32 The Weight of Paperwork and Memories 17:13 The Cost of Overfunctioning 23:19 Choosing Yourself in Midlife 28:35 Creating a Centered Midlife 34:34 Embracing Change and Choice DISCLAIMER: The content in this podcast and video is not a replacement for therapy and is not clinical, medical, or mental health treatment. Dr. Natalie Marr is a Licensed Psychologist in the state of Minnesota. Her work with ⁠⁠(⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://LearnToLoveYourStory.com (about:invalid#zCSafez) ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠)⁠, ⁠(⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://NatalieMarrCounseling.com (about:invalid#zCSafez) ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠),⁠ and all affiliate social media entities is educational and coaching based ONLY. She IS NOT offering therapeutic services of any kind on these mediums. If you or someone you know is having a mental health crisis or having thoughts of suicide, please use the following crisis resources (this is not an exhaustive list of available resources):National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org⁠/ (about:invalid#zCSafez) ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠or CALL 988Crisis Text Line:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.crisistextline.org/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠or Text HOME to 741741