Czy kobieta zawsze musi za coś przepraszać? | Monika Mrozowska | Matcha Talks Podcast

Why, when a woman is a mother, is she primarily referred to as a mother? Why do people ask Monika more often about her patchwork, who she has children with, or why so many partners, than about her roles, passions, and how she defines herself? And yes, someone might say: "first world problems." What does it matter what anyone asks? But it does matter. For our identity. For how we see ourselves. Because when we constantly see ourselves one way, we later start to think: "Jesus, maybe I'm crazy and I really am ONLY..." In this episode of Matcha Talks, I talk with Monika Mrozowska about: – why women are defined by roles, – why society remembers "who you have children with" more than who you are, – why empathy can be brutally painful, – and whether a woman has the right not to apologize for her own life. This is not an interview about a "patchwork family." It's a conversation about identity, guilt, and how much people need to put women in simple boxes. SUBSCRIBE to Matcha Talks if you're tired of interviews where everyone is "inspiring" and no one says anything real. I especially recommend "Recipe for a Good Life" – a beautiful, deeply personal book about food, home, and everyday life, which is more about life than just recipes. (horecatrends.pl) And if you enjoy conversations about psychology, relationships, and life without the plastic of coaching – check out our Matcha Talks books too. Because not everything needs to be fixed. Sometimes you just need to finally understand something. If you're tired of conversations where everyone is "wonderful"… stay here for a while. 👉 SUBSCRIBE to Matcha Talks: https://www.youtube.com/@JuliaIzmalko... 🔁 KEEP WATCHING 👉 If this topic resonated with you, watch the interview with Monika Dzieciaki Cudaki:    • Monika Hoffman-Piszora: Dlaczego ludzie ni...   🍵 IN THIS EPISODE WE DRINK WILDE MATCHA 👉 https://psychomama.pl/collections/matcha 📚 BOOK + MATCHA (SET) 👉 https://www.psychomama.pl/products/ri... 💌 5% OFF YOUR FIRST PURCHASE: 👉 Sign up for the newsletter: https://www.psychomama.pl 🎙️ GUEST: Monika Mrozowska 🍵 IN THIS EPISODE WE DRINK: Wilde Matcha https://psychomama.pl/collections/matcha 👗 JULIA WEARS: VICHER Jumpsuit:   / vicher_official   Julia's jewelry is Julia's signature therapeutic jewelry from the Queen of F**king Everything collection, available soon!   / queen_o_f_e   Shoes: @zalando 📬 COLLABORATION / questions: [email protected] ⏱️ CHAPTERS 00:00 – Introduction 01:15 – Who is Monika Mrozowska? 02:12 – Difficult Moments 04:14 – Intentionality 05:29 – Large Family 08:00 – Sibling Relationships and the Role of the Youngest Child 10:43 – Does Having Many Children Define Monika? 12:12 – Parenting Philosophy: Preparing to Let Her Child Leave Home 14:14 – How Does Monika Define Herself? 16:03 – Reaction to the Social Perception of Children with Different Fathers 20:20 – Comparisons to Men and Double Standards 22:23 – How Does Monika Cope with Opinions and Hate Online? 25:05 – Gratitude 27:11 – Armor 29:20 – Self-Confidence 31:36 – The First Test of My Relationship with My Mom 34:39 – Divorce 36:45 – Self-Reflection After a Breakup: What Has Monika Learned About Relationships? 39:51 – Life Changes 40:22 – Learning to Set Boundaries After 40 45:30 – Shadows of Childhood 50:50 – Why Does Monika Defend Her Father? 51:50 – The Impact of My Relationship with My Father on My Choice of Partners 53:30 – How Does the Patchwork Family Model Work in Practice? 57:38 – A Way to Calm a Patchwork Family 59:53 – Controversy Surrounding Natural Healing Methods and Homeopathy 1:07:11 – Yoga and Sports as a Way to Connect with Your Body 1:10:00 – The Courageous Decision to Return to Active Acting 1:16:25 – Dietary Challenges: When Your Child Only Wants to Eat Pizza and French Fries 1:18:18 – Seeking Psychological Help for Parenting Difficulties 1:23:43 – Accepting Your Child's Individuality and Letting Go of Control 1:31:30 – The Meaning of Life: From Building a House to Personal Development and Painting 1:38:20 – Mission 1:42:12 – Choices Between Love and Fear 1:46:10 – Summary WHAT IS MATCHA TALKS? Matcha Talks is a podcast and book series that will change your perspective. My name is Julia Izmałkowa. I'm a psychologist, not a journalist. I'm not interested in what's already known. I'm interested in what no one dares to ask. These aren't interviews for fun. These are conversations meant to make a difference. Stay with Matcha Talks: https://www.youtube.com/@JuliaIzmalko... Don't forget to RSVP and click the bell! 📚 My books: https://psychomama.pl/collections/ksi... 🍵 Wilde Matcha: https://psychomama.pl/collections/matcha 📸 Instagram:   / psychomama_julia   💌 SUBSCRIBE TO THE NEWSLETTER and GET 5% OFF YOUR FIRST PURCHASE: https://www.psychomama.pl 🎤 Booking: https://www.juliaizmalkowa.com #patchwork #motherofmanychildren #naturalmedicine #actress #passion