Ep. 142: Suffocated Grief & Supporting Black Youth - Dr. Tashel Bordere

Dr. Tashel Bordere has spent years researching the grief experience of black youth affected by homicide and gun violence. While many grieving people can relate to their grief being disregarded, for black youth and youth with marginalized identities, their grief not only goes unacknowledged, but is often penalized. Their behaviors and reactions, which are normal responses to grief, are met not with support and understanding, but with negative labels and punishment. This results in a concept Dr. Bordere has identified as suffocated grief and is rooted in systems of oppression and discrimination. Dr. Bordere, PhD, CT is a Certified Thanatologist and Assistant Professor of Human Development & Family Science at the University of Missouri. She is also a Robert Wood Johnson Forward Promise Fellow (https://forwardpromise.org/) and the author of numerous research papers and publications focused on black youth affected by homicide, gun violence, and race-based trauma. To learn more about Dr. Bordere's work: S.H.E.D. Grief Tools (MU Extension) Video (http://www.kaltura.com/tiny/y8enf) Website (http://extension.missouri.edu/hes/fam...) Handbook of Social Justice in Loss and Grief (Harris & Bordere, 2016) (http://extension.missouri.edu/hes/fam...) Recent Publication: Bordere, T. (2019). Suffocated grief, resilience, and survival among African American families. In M. H. Jacobsen & A. Petersen's (Eds.), Exploring grief: Towards a sociology of sorrow. New York: Routledge. Recent Presentation: Grief, Bereavement, and Death at a Distance: Perspectives on the impact to the community (COVID-19). (https://www.adec.org/page/ADECconvo1) Presented through the Association for Death Education and Counseling. (https://www.adec.org/)

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