What if you don’t actually want it?
Have you ever set a goal, made a plan, invested in support and still found yourself unable to take action? What if the problem isn’t motivation, discipline or consistency? What if you’re pursuing a goal that isn’t yours? In this episode of Flourishing School, I explore why we often chase goals based on comparison, expectation or what we think we should want, rather than what matters to us. I share a story from my coaching practice that highlights the difference between pursuing success on someone else’s terms and creating a life that feels meaningful on your own. If you’ve been feeling stuck, resistant, unmotivated or frustrated with yourself, this episode may help you understand what’s really going on. Topics include goal setting, motivation, self-acceptance, personal growth, success, comparison, values and creating a life that feels aligned with the season of life you're in Connect with me on social media: / tamu.thomas / tamuthomas Buy your copy of Women Who Work Too Much: https://bit.ly/4eBSYxQ

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