our pastor debunks our relationship assumptions

we sat down with our good friends and mentors to talk through the relationship and marriage assumptions we’ve all heard… and some of the answers honestly surprised us. follow us! instagram & tiktok ⟶ @rossandava follow brennan! instagram & tiktok ⟶ @brennanwashington Chapters 00:00 intro 01:10 engagement plot ruined 05:07 why are we doing this 06:05 "engagement will fix everything" 10:55 "strong christian couples don’t argue” 13:40 communication myths 22:34 "intimacy will be easy” 27:44 the honeymoon phase 31:09 vulnerability online 38:03 “engaged = basically married?” 44:24 waiting until marriage & intimacy expectations 49:15 spiritual leadership in marriage 54:02 “God will make it 100% obvious” 58:07 top 3 pieces of engagement advice 1:02:12 personal walk with God vs. “couple devotions” 1:04:12 secret place