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How destructive living with a liar can be. Schedule online or in-person psychotherapy: WhatsApp +55 11 99787-4512 http://www.marisapsicologa.com.br/hor... In-person appointments: Rua Bela Cintra, 968 (near Paulista Avenue - Consolação Metro and Paulista Metro stations) Subscribe to this channel http://goo.gl/32B3B6 Become a member of the channel club:    / @psicólogosemsãopaulo   Free e-books http://www.marisapsicologa.com.br/mat... Previously published e-books: OCD, Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder, Personality Disorders, Depression. Psychological treatments. Anxiety. Panic. ADHD. Attention deficit. Hypochondria. Schizophrenia. Anorexia. Obesity. Agoraphobia. Alcoholism treatment. Self-esteem. Childhood anxiety. Shyness. Bournot syndrome. Premature ejaculation. Overcoming the pain of separation. How to maintain sanity during quarantine. Insomnia. Abandonment neurosis. Borderline. Join the Telegram group: https://t.me/PsicologosemSP Marisa de Abreu Psychologist, CRP 06/29493 _________________________________________ One of the things that most shakes you to the core is lying. Why living with liars is so destabilizing. One of the things most sought after by human beings is certainty. The more we know that a piece of information is true, the more comfortable we feel in the world and in life. You need to go somewhere a little far from home. You have a familiar path, knowing how to navigate it without significant stress and attention costs, but someone teaches you a much shorter one, full of obstacles and uncertainties. Even if you desperately need to save fuel, you might prefer what you already know. Even with negative information, we need to know that what we think is bad is actually quite bad. This is why we see people demonizing a piece of fruit, a glass of water, something that would be harmful only to some people in some situations. However, the uncertainty of evaluating each case individually makes human beings lump everything together, certainty about something that should be avoided by everyone at all times at all costs. There are two types of liars. Those who lie without a specific purpose, lying for the sake of lying—a compulsive behavior that doesn't directly lead to an advantage due to the deception they're causing others. And those who lie for personal gain. The liar is more effective the closer they get to the "truths" you need. What kind of thing is important to you? This is the material that will affect you most intensely. That's why a liar destabilizes you, because often, through lies, they make your dreams come true, or rather, make you think your dreams are coming true. If you never find out, you'll be deluded forever; if you do, you'll experience a painful disappointment. You may still not find out but suffer the consequences of the lie, such as blaming others for some supposed inefficiency. But lies exist precisely to bring joy to those who feed on them. Many only want to hear and see what pleases them; they don't bother to verify the truth, precisely for the comfort of having found what they wanted to see. Success on Instagram is proof. Even if a person suffers from not having a life as great as those who post, they still love to imagine that it is possible.