''God Told Me You Are My Wife'': Church Dating Red Flags!

Church dating has produced some of the sweetest love stories... and some of the wildest dramas. From "God told me you're my wife" without even knowing your surname, to church boys and girls who know every worship chord but disappear when it's time for honest communication and accountability or labels. Then there are the church girls who mistake being hard to approach for being virtuous, expect mind reading instead of communication, or collect "kingdom brothers" like trophies without ever intending to choose one. Red flags wey dey wear cross. Wey carry a Bible, na still red flag. Holiness and healthy relationship skills are not the same thing o. Let's unpack the biggest dating red flags we see in church culture, from spiritual manipulation and performative Christianity to unrealistic expectations, poor communication, everything! Anonymous Question link: https://url-shortener.me/A9GY Our website is finally live🎉 🥳🎊 https://thekesenas.com And with it, our newsletter to both singles and married. A quiet corner for marriage, healing, faith, and the little lessons that keep us grounded. We’re giving more of our heart, more of our journey, and more of what God keeps teaching us. Singles: https://tr.ee/K78vuCuwJ4 Married: https://tr.ee/v-9bPElRGJ