She Has 4 Kids From a Man She's Never Met. 9 Million People Can't Stop Watching

She was 30 years old, running a company worth millions. She flew to the United States. Walked into a sperm bank. Spent $69,000. Flew home pregnant — alone, by choice, without apology. That was 2017. By 2024, Ye Haiyang had four children. All from the same donor. All conceived deliberately, on her own timeline. She grew up in Jilin province, in a single-parent household after her parents divorced. At 22, with no business degree and no capital beyond years of unglamorous work, she founded a cosmetics company. By 2015 — a factory, a brand, real wealth. Then she asked herself a question successful people often avoid: what is all of this actually for? She went on blind dates her parents arranged. Felt the exhaustion of folding an entire life into someone else's expectations. She wanted a child. She did not want to wait for a marriage to get there. She did not want the marriage at all. She researched sperm banks the way she researched everything — methodically. Selected a donor with mixed heritage, strong health, an Ivy League degree. The total cost — travel, medical procedures, everything — came to roughly $69,000. In 2017, her first daughter Doris was born. The internet found out. The responses split immediately. Selfish, some said — a child designed rather than grown, denied her right to a complete family. Braver than most people would admit was possible, others said. The criticism was severe enough that she developed depression during the pregnancy. Then Doris was born. She stopped reading the comments. She wrote letters to her daughter — explaining who she was, why she made the choices she made, for the day Doris would be old enough to understand. She gave up skiing, surfing, skydiving — activities she loved — because she had calculated she was now someone's only pillar. Three years later, Doris asked for a sibling. Same donor. A second daughter, Heidi, born in Russia. The criticism had dropped. The tone had shifted. One comment, liked tens of thousands of times: "She has daughters and sons, money, no husband, no annoying mother-in-law. So happy." In 2024 — twin boys. Four children total. From a man she has never met. Nine million people now watch her on Douyin. "I have children. I have not disturbed anyone else in the world," she said. "Is trying hard to live well selfishness?" ⏱ Watch until the end — her answer to the critics will make you think differently about family. 👇 Was her decision selfish or brave? Tell us honestly below.